Hello there! Nice you found that forum!
To iniciate a little bit of a dicsussion, I will put this question up, so we all can connect a bit and know more about each other.
I wonder what language you speak with your partner - his/her language, your language, another language (for ex. english), or a mixture of all?
For my part, at the beginning my partner and I we spoke only his language because he was still learning and did just know very little of the language we speak here. Now, we have like a mixture, but it doesn't work so well because when you once start with a language, you're getting used to it and you can't change so easily, I think...
Would love to hear your thoughts! 😙😀